We
all are out here living our lives many I would say on our own terms. However
even in the light of owning our truths others are always affected, effected,
and infected by what we do.
It
is so very easy to point your finger at someone you disagree with. Especially
when you don't value their ability to be a free thinker as you would want
others to value you.
Watching
people make decisions that affect you whether directly or indirectly and
remaining mum does not mean you don't care. It could mean you value people to
have the right to make decisions and think for themselves as you would want the
same respect.
There
are plenty of LIFE ALTERING moments you will challenge your immediate response
to them. Some of the decisions you made you will later consider the best ...
then others you will consider could and should have been different.
Nevertheless
no one is perfect. NO ONE! It takes a real honest person to admit their
responsibility in the status of their lives. ALWAYS deflecting your anger and
contempt at others no matter their role in your status does not help you grow
nor heal.
Sometimes
DEATH is the only answer to LIVE again.
Once I was at a homegoing service of very dear to my heart loved one. I
was devastated beyond words. There was nothing no one could say that could
comfort me. How could GOD let this happen. Take someone I loved so much from
me! WHY GOD? Even with knowing the answer to this revisited query it would do
nothing to bring my loved one back. As I sat there tears streaming from my
face, heart beating out my chest, aching, trembling as I looked at this
beautifully adorned ornamental box now holding the remains of my loved one. I
hear the officiant say these words "Some things you never get over but God
will help you live with it."
I
left that moment changed forever how I looked at my life, those in it, and how
I value time. Time is the one thing you never have enough of, it never repeats
itself, and it subtracts and adds simultaneously.
So
mourn the DEATHS in your life so you can learn LIVE as you still have breath in
your body. Some THINGS you never get over but GOD will help you live with THEM.
8.31.17 Rest In Loving PEACE
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